A lot of guys do not know

This is a meaningful article sent by SY and I would also like to share it here. Well, someone needs translation so I will try my best here even though it is not translated beautifully :)

★很多男孩子都不知道 ★
* A LOT OF GUYS DO NOT KNOW *

其实很多男孩子都不知道，女孩子在冲他们发火后自己转过身却在不断啜泣。
Actually a lot of guys do not know, girls would turn away and sob after showing anger towards the guys

其实很多男孩子都不知道，女孩子从来不会真正去生他们的气，因为她是真的喜欢他在乎他。
Actually a lot of guys do not know, girls will never really angry with guys, because she really likes and cares about him.

其实很多男孩子都不知道，女孩子只会对自己喜欢的男生唠唠叨叨，也只会对自己喜欢的人耍性子。
Actually a lot of guys do not know, girls will only nag and being temperamental to the guy they like.

你要知道 ，假若她不喜欢你，她根本不会来在乎你关心你，怕你做错事情。
You have to know, if she doesn't like you, she will not care or concern about you, and even worry that you might do things the wrong way.

你要知道 ，假若她不喜欢你，她根本不会对你发火不会冲你撒娇让你哄她，在别人面前她都是淑女。
You have to know, if she doesn't like you, she will not throw tantrum and then seek pampering from you, she has always been so ladylike for others.

你要知道 ，假若她不喜欢你，你根本就没有本事让她哭泣，让她即使生气也不会超过2天。
You have to know, if she doesn't like you, you don't even have the capability of making her cry. Even if she does get angry, it won't last more than 2 days.

而这一切都只是因为她喜欢你，而这一切都因为你还不够在意她不够懂她。
And all these is just because she likes you and yet you have not cared or understand her enough.

于是，你们时常争吵，你认为她脾气不好，她认为你不够迁就她。
Therefore, both of you often have arguments. You thought she is hot tempered and she thought you never give in enough.

于是，你们总是冷战，你以为她不喜欢你，她以为你不在乎她。
Therefore, both of you often in cold war. You thought she doesn't like you and she thought you never care about her.

于是，你们总是莫名其妙的彼此错过，也许擦身而过，本身就是一种悲伤着的无奈与幸福。
Therefore, both of you often miss out a lot of things in the relationship despite being crossed path in each other's life. Such blissful yet pathetic and helpless.

要知道，凄美依然是美的一种，并且美的绚丽悲凉而沧桑，那是更加的美。
(Okay, this one need help. Haha. Due to different culture and value towards love, afraid this sentence cannot be translated the ang moh way)

因为她喜欢你，所以她偶尔冲你发火，时常对你撒娇。
She would throw temper at you occasionally and sometimes be cute to you. That is because she likes you.

因为她喜欢你，所以她才会生你的气；而又因为喜欢你，她才不会去生气很久。
She would get angry with you but it never last long. That is because she likes you.

你可知道，每个女孩子的心都是水晶做的，晶莹剔透，但是很容易就碰伤摔碎 。
Have you ever know, every girl's heart is made of crystal, transparent yet fragile.

你可知道，每个女孩子都是不设防的，你那么轻易就闯进她的心，走的时候却只留下伤害 。
Have you ever know, every girl's heart is unprotected that you could easily broke into her heart. But to only leave with hurts.

她从来都不知道，这个世界上根本没有可以让她哭的人，因为真正值得她哭的那个根本舍不得让她哭。
She never knows, no one could actually make her in tears because the one worth her crying will not let her cry.

她会很矜持，她会很骄傲，她会很冷淡，她总是嘴里说着你走开，心里却一直叫你留下。
She can be reserved, proud and cold that she chases you away yet she hopes you to stay from the heart.

请你张开你的耳朵，也请你打开你的心，去听她心里真正的呼唤，而不是她嘴里的口是心非。
Please open up your ears and heart to listen to the real voices within her heart instead of those unintended words coming from her mouth.

她会看着你转身，然后她跟着你转身，当侧身而过的时候，你看不见她的泪，滂沱在脸上心里。
You will never see her tears on her face and inside the heart as you walk away.

如果你喜欢她，请你多陪她；如果你喜欢她，请你多宠她；如果你喜欢她，请你多让她。
If you like her, please keep her accompanied, pamper her and to give in for her.

如果你喜欢她，请你去听听她内心的声音，那是呐喊——请拥抱她。
If you like her, please listen to her inner voice that shouts out loud for a hug.

在爱情里，总是彼此伤害，彷佛这样才能证明自己爱得激烈爱到轰轰烈烈。
People always hurt each other in a relationship as if it could testify how great the relationship is.

可是，爱情里没有孰对孰错； 爱情里更加没有你比我多我比你少
However, there shouldn't be right or wrong and even more or less in a relationship.

你爱她，她爱你，如此就已经足够。不要试图让彼此的伤害，让彼此更加脆弱悲伤。
It would be sufficient to love each other. Hurting each other will only weaken and sadden the relationship.

你们彼此相爱，你们需要的是温暖是幸福是甜蜜是快乐，不是伤害。
It is the warmth, sweetness, and happiness that are essential in a relationship. Not hurts.

不要用沉默宣战，不要互不相让，更不要什么话都不讲就冷漠离去
Do not declare war nor being intolerant. Do not ever leave without a word.

要知道，你离去的时候，你的眼睛起了雾，她的眼角泛着泪光。
Please know that once you left, she will be in tears.

越是安静战火就越传，这是冷战也是彼此的伤害——无论是怎么的复合，那些伤口曾经存在，抹不去
The more silent it is, the more intense it could be. Cold war will only leave unforgettable wound on each other.

Misery of Passwords

Being an extremely forgetful person, it is not something new for me to forget my own passwords for anything. If lucky enough to remember the ID, it will be fine with the passwords by requesting it. Otherwise, it has never been a big deal too. Would just either leave it till I recall, or to create a new account. Fairly easy.

Hotmail, Facebook, Friendster, Yahoo, Gmail, Blogspot, Credit Cards, Office Outlook, etc, so many of them, how to remember??? All these passwords has always been out of sight, out of mind for me.

Well, apparently luck is not always on my side and it's time to learn a lesson...when I couldn't even recall my share trading account's particulars when time was critical! The best part was that the account was deactivated due to over quota of trial and error attempts. Imagine the helpless, disappointment, anxious feeling when $$$ bid farewell to you due to your own obliviousness!

Argh... speechless.

Anyway, it's still a lucky one. Haha. Why?
(i) It wasn't a turnover of millions dollars.
(ii Lesson learnt, finally. (It was kinda costly though)
(iii) The share price might go higher someday, who knows?

Amitabha~

Simple Life

Upon thousands of pressures and millions of reminders, finally here am I to update some stories of my life after 5 weeks of being idle. Sincere apologies for the delay!

It's been a busy month, or to be exact it has been a busy year since the beginning of 2009. Well, good thing or not? You tell me.

Been working like a machine, no day and night
Been traveling like a bird, 4,000KM in one month
Been restless like a soldier, 8 hours sleep definitely a luxury
Been happening like Oscar Award, juicy stories worth remembering

However, ever and ever... all these has come to an end (well, not exactly) but at least now I have the time to update blog, to do laundry, to clean room, to catch up on drama series, to log in Facebook, to do some readings etc. Well, it's true people only appreciate things when they miss it. Haha, well said. I am enjoying all these petty and simple house chores that used to be so mundane and normal to me.

Last but not least, these are the outcome of a 'normal life' for today. A simple yet fulfilling home-cooked dinner:


Shall update again on my life for the past one month :) stay tune~